Misunderstandings can lead to rejection.

            Common interests alone are not enough to maintain any type of relationship, whether friendship, romantic or family. Time needs to be set aside during most meeting periods, or every one of them, for relaxed and courteous face to face talks to get mutually reacquainted with the other person's current emotional and beliefs status. Also with the other person's concept of ethics and morals, and how they'd feel about you if they felt you did not fit into their concepts of what is good in those regards well enough. If these awarenesses are not maintained, and compassionate connectivity nurtured according to its developing or even, or especially, declining needs, misunderstandings can grow to such a degree that one person may eventually reject the other and refuse communication. Then the other person may sense things have deteriorated to the point where attempts to correct the fractured relationship will only make things even worse due to their being any continued contact attempt at all. Don't forget to, and don't be afraid to, ask to sit down with those life brighteners you care about, and do it often enough, so that negative assumptions your complicated lives may acquire don't spiral out of control. Don't get so carried away with the casual that you don't notice the other person's diminishing receptiveness to it. Otherwise, a relationship break may be severe enough that one of your first thoughts every morning will be the magnitude of what your life has lost, and how easily it could have been retained before it became too late. That could then harm your happiness in general. You can get on with your life. But you may not be able to forget that trying not to think about a loss is in a way the same thing as thinking about it. if you have experience an unrepairable tragedy, providing yourself enough distractions, and learning your lessons so you'll treat other more smartly, can be among the best options for recovery. You'll need to make unexpected new plans and figure out how your habits of acquiring benefits from knowing that person can be replaced with someone else eventually, or how the lack of them can then be adequately coped with in your life.
   

Taken on: November 14, 2011

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